
How much is too much? I read recently in the New York Times, of parents able to go on line on a daily basis and check up on all their kids' activities at school. This is not a home school thing where they go in and track your work, but a number of programs have been designed to notify parents of their kid skipping a class or failing a test at school. While it is important for parents to be aware of what is going on in school, this completely detours from the relationship of a parent and kid. Growing up there where times that I did poorly on a stupid spelling test or on a science test, however I knew it wouldn't affect my overall grade and that eventually I could make it up. However, this program allows parents to know of each and every one of your grade without giving the child the time to tell them or explain anything to them. It makes it impossible for kids to mess up. When I was a kid I always resented getting yelled at or lectured for messing up one time out of a thousand, but no, parents pick that one time and never let up. These programs allow for continuous questioning and lecturing over simple mistakes kids our bound to make throughout school. This is not to say that the program may be beneficial to children with a history of skipping school or failing classes, but it leaves a large window of opportunity to get on to other children constantly about their school work even if they are an overall excellent student. I personally don't agree with the level this has been taken to. In the end, programs like ParentConnect are going to leave kids resentful of their parents, as well as make them not want to come home after school if they know all they are going to hear about is the C they got on their math test.Here is the site if you want to read more about it:http://www.nytimes.com/2008/05/04/fashion/04edline.html?ref=style
